Dancing Under the Stars

Back on April 10, the American Veterans Post 726 in Jamestown, NY, played host to a prom for young individuals with disabilities.  The AMVETS Women’s Auxiliary transformed the lodge on Fluvanna Avenue into a magical world for an “Evening Under the Stars,” complete with sparkly stars hanging from the ceiling and glitter-covered tables.

“The auxiliary came up with the theme,” said Verna Dickinson, Case Manager with TRC’s Jamestown Rehabilitation Services Program.  “Everyone had a great time.”

“Yes, it was awesome.  Those kids had such a ball, they were singing and dancing,” said Dixie Cotton, Second and Third Vice President for the AMVETS.  “We have a lot of creative members on the auxiliary, and it only took a couple of months to pull it all together.”

In addition to their caregivers, families and dates, about 50 individuals with disabilities took part in this first-ever prom.  Each person attending was given a corsage or boutonniere to wear and an engraved votive candleholder with a candle to take home.

One of the young men attending was Verna’s son Brian.  Brian is a 17-year-old junior at Jamestown High School who has Down syndrome.

“Brian had a great time, an absolute ball,” said Verna.  “And so did his date.”

Brian’s prom date was his friend Karla Rodriguez, a senior at JHS and former Junior Miss contestant.

“It was the cutest prom, it was so special,” said Karla.  “I’ve known Brian since kindergarten, and we sit together at lunch and I really wanted to make it special for him.”

“He was totally ecstatic.  All he did was talk about Karla all the time,” said Verna.  “I actually didn’t believe him at first when he said they were going together, until he brought her number home and I called her to see if she was serious about going ,and she said they were best buds and she was going, and I was very happy about that.

“Brian said, `Rent me a tux,’ and I did.”

Everyone at the prom was dressed to the nines and got the chance to have their picture taken under a decorated arch.  The pictures were printed and handed out before the prom-goers left the dance.  During the dance, Star Search Karaoke provided the music, and many people got up and gave wonderful karaoke performances.

“Everyone was a little shy and timid at first,” said Karla.  “But Brian and I got things started on the dance floor and then everyone joined in.  It was nice to see people let loose and have a good time.”

“Quite a few took part in the karaoke, and they were pretty good,” said Verna.  “I’m just very heartened to see the friendships Brian has made.  I didn’t know he had so many friends.”

“People with disabilities are people too,” remarked Karla when asked why she would encourage others to follow in her footsteps.  “Sure, their disability may complicate their life, but they shouldn’t be treated any different.  There’s no reason to make fun of them.  They’re people, and we had a great time.”

As did everyone, and Verna extends a big thank-you to all the ladies of the auxiliary who made it happen.  In fact, it was such a success, there’s already talk of next year’s prom.  If you would like to attend or help out, contact Verna Dickinson at 661-4880.

By Mark Goshgarian, Media Consultant